Whether you are new in town or have been around for years, head to Melange Oasis for a meet-up for cup of tea or coffee with other international parents, and share your thoughts on life in this weird and wonderful city. Children are welcome. Every Monday morning, from 10:30am to noon.

www.shanghaimamas.org provides an English language forum for international parents in Shanghai to share information and advice, tell stories, voice concerns, and give mutual support. With active discussion boards, a photo gallery, activity calendar and frequent organized events, this is a great resource for parents of children of all ages. ShanghaiMamas is a not-for-profit community run by volunteers.